Eulogies & Obituaries
Funeral Planning
Eulogies & Obituaries
Delivering a heartfelt eulogy or writing an obituary can be an overwhelming task, even for those with public speaking experience. To assist you during this emotional time, we have compiled helpful resources to guide you through the process.
Eulogies
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Delivering a heartfelt and meaningful eulogy can be a daunting experience, even for seasoned public speakers. However, it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. How do you capture someone’s life in just a few short minutes, balancing somber reflection with moments of humor? Writing and delivering a eulogy can serve as a therapeutic way to process your grief, and being entrusted with this role is an honor that should be approached with care. Here are some helpful tips for crafting and delivering a eulogy that is both eloquent and memorable.
- Gather Information: Speak with family, friends, and colleagues to collect important details about the deceased. Key elements to include in the eulogy might be the person’s relationships, career, hobbies, travel experiences, and notable achievements.
- Organize Your Thoughts: Jot down your ideas in whatever method feels most comfortable. Create an outline and begin filling it in with the information you’ve gathered.
- Write It Down: Unlike a wedding toast, a eulogy requires careful preparation—do not improvise. Writing it down allows you to capture every important detail. When you bring your written eulogy to the podium, ensure it’s easy to read by using a large font or leaving extra space if it’s hand-written. Be mindful of time; it’s best to keep your eulogy brief, especially if other speakers are involved.
- Review and Revise: Your first draft may need revisions. Once you’ve written it, take some time away and revisit it the next day. This fresh perspective will help you make any needed adjustments.
- Practice, Practice, Practice: Familiarity with your eulogy will help you feel more comfortable delivering it. Practice reading it aloud, in front of a mirror or to a friend or family member, and ask for their feedback. The more you rehearse, the more at ease you’ll be during the actual delivery.
- Incorporate Humor—Respectfully: While a funeral is not the time for a roast, humor can help lighten the mood and bring everyone together. Share a funny, lighthearted story about the person that’s appropriate for all ages. Laughter can ease the emotional heaviness and allow everyone to remember the deceased fondly.
- Don’t Hide Your Emotions: It’s natural to feel emotional during a funeral. It’s okay to shed tears. However, if you anticipate being too overwhelmed, consider having a trusted friend or family member ready to step in and deliver the eulogy for you. Provide them with a copy well ahead of time.
- Prepare with Essentials: Always have a glass of water and tissues on hand. It’s normal to be emotional, and being prepared can help you stay composed during your speech.
Extras:
- Home Removal or non refrigerated facility $400.00
- Anyone overweight is subject to pay additional crematory fees (over 250 pounds) $120.00
- Shipping of cremains
- Hamptons to Montauk $250.00/ NYC $400.00
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Obituaries
Writing an obituary is a challenging and emotional task. To begin, gather information from family and friends about the deceased’s life, including their childhood, education, career, hobbies, and interests. Additionally, contact the funeral home for details about the date, time, and location of the funeral service or any related events. Using the template below can help simplify the process, ensuring you include all essential information in a structured way.
Instructions: Replace the placeholders in brackets with the relevant details. Keep in mind that most newspapers charge by the word, so this template is designed to be concise while including all necessary information. Feel free to make adjustments as needed.
[GIVEN NAME] [MIDDLE NAME (AND NICKNAME)] [SURNAME], [AGE], of [CITY], [STATE], passed away on [DATE OF DEATH] in [LOCATION OF DEATH].
The funeral service will be held at [LOCATION] on [DATE] at [TIME], with Reverend [NAME] of [CHURCH] officiating. Burial will follow at [CEMETERY NAME], [CEMETERY LOCATION]. Visitation will take place at [LOCATION] on [DATE] at [TIME]. Funeral arrangements are being handled by [FUNERAL HOME NAME].
[NAME] was born in [LOCATION OF BIRTH] to [PARENTS’ NAMES] on [DATE OF BIRTH]. He/she graduated from [SCHOOL NAME] in [YEAR] and earned a [DEGREE TYPE] from [SCHOOL NAME]. He/she worked as a [JOB TYPE] for [COMPANY] for [NUMBER OF YEARS]. [NAME] enjoyed [ACTIVITIES/HOBBIES], received [AWARDS/HONORS], and was actively involved in [CHARITIES/ORGANIZATIONS].
He/she is survived by [RELATION], [NAME] of [CITY], along with [SURVIVING FAMILY MEMBERS]. He/she was preceded in death by [RELATION], [NAME] (list of predeceased family members).
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to [ORGANIZATION NAME], [MAILING ADDRESS]. The family extends their heartfelt thanks to [ORGANIZATION/NAME].
[FINAL WORDS].