"An end to a long journey and a beginning to a new one." Pamela Joanne Yolanda Rohan Williams The beautiful and blessed life of Pamela began on September 1, 1988, to her mother Sybil Kmiec and father James Rohan in Syosset, Long Island, NY. She attended public schools and earned her high school diploma from Job Corp. and received her associate's degree in psychology from University of Phoenix. At a young age she attended Community Baptist Church with family. Pamela loved her music, especially Mary J. Blige and Nikki Minaj. She loved to style hair and wear her hair with bangs. At a later age, she met her beloved husband, Dashawn Williams and settled in North Carolina. In 2023, they moved to Orlando Florida to start a better life. Her beautiful life will forever be cherished in the lives of her children. She is survived by her five children: Kingston, Cataleya, Serenity, Shawn Jr., and Colby. She will also be cherished by her siblings: Jacquelyn, James Jr., Dominique, Kiara, Wayne, Mehkai, Marcin Jr, and Kazmiera; uncles Tyone, Wayne, Robert, Warren, Carry, Herman, Matthew, and Gaston; aunts, Sabrinna, Felicia, and Sharron; grandparents: Joanne Haynes and Cecil Rohan.
Those I Love and Leave Behind
When I am gone, release me, let me goI have so many things to see and doYou mustn't tie yourself to me with tearsBe happy that we had so many years
I gave you my love, you can only guessHow much you gave to me in happinessI thank you for the love you each have shownBut now it's time I travelled on aloneSo, grieve awhile for me, if grieve you mustThen let your grief be comforted by trust
It's only for a while that we must partSo blessed the memories within your heartI won't be far away, for life goes onSo, if you need me, call me, and I will comeThough you can't see or touch me, I'll be nearAnd if you listen with your heart, you will hearAll my love around you soft and clear
And then, when you must come this way alone"I'll greet you with a smile, and say, Welcome Home"
Place Name:
Dohanich Ventimiglia Family Funeral Home & Cremation Related Service, Inc.
Address:
331 Smithtown Blvd, Nesconset, NY, 11767
Service Details:
12pm to 1pm religious service at the funeral home to be followed by a burial at Mt Pleasant Cemetery 411 Main Street, Center Moriches, NY 11934.
Cemetery Name:
Dohanich Ventimiglia Family Funeral Home & Cremation Related Service, Inc.
Cemetery Address:
331 Smithtown Blvd, Nesconset, NY, 11767
Loving daughter mom and sister God has you in his keeping I have you in my heart I love you and I miss you rest in peace Love Your Mom Sybil💔😢🙏🏽
November 24, 2025
Pam,
I love you and will miss you terribly. This is so heartbreaking to know that you’re not physically here and we were unable to connect as adult women with families. I will cherish our memories as young ladies enjoying our lives, learning the world and growing together. We shared so many fun experiences together- learning to take the bus to the mall, meeting at the corner and walking to the pizza shop , deli and of course navigating through relationships and boys! Our group eagerly waiting for the weekend, whether it was the movies or sleep overs, or “the club” lol. I will distinctly remember your jokes, laughter and cucumber melon scent, your cleanliness, the way you loved Mary J and DMX should be studied lol. We have so many innocent and just fun memories. Your family was so accepting and already knew we were coming as a package deal lol. Thank you for sharing your heart and unconditional friendship with me because it was just so real. I am so grateful for your presence, kindness and realness. You will be missed dearly. To Sybil, Ma , Sabrina and your children we lost a good one yall, my deepest condolences to you. May God give you strength, peace and comfort that only he can give. Until we meet again, – at the corner. Rest in heavenly peace Sis.
Love your close friend,
Rashauna
November 25, 2025
I can’t even put into words at how I feel right now. You pretty raised me while mommy worked. I remember you dressing me up and taking me to hangout with your friends. I thought you were the coolest person. We shared a room more than half of our lives, you played dolls with me even when your past that stage. You were always so smart, pretty, and ready to live life. You took me out for my 16th birthday when no one else was there, took me to the city to shop for school clothes. I wish as we grew older we stayed as close but I pray you know I still loved you. I now pray you’re resting and looking down upon us and seeing how loved you’re. Seeing everyone come together for you, that is what you meant to people. I love you always your little sister.
November 28, 2025
November 28, 2025
Pam,
You are the most kindest and wonderful big sister anyone could ask for. You were the most softest and gentle person. I still hear your silly laugh and I still remember the nicknames you gave me when I was a kid. I always looked up to you and wanted to be like you. I would try to imitate the way you did your hair, your dances, and learn all the songs you knew. I couldn’t catch the beat but you would still patiently try to teach me. I just wanted to be close to you. Now I feel like we’re more far away than ever. I love you so much big sis and miss you dearly. You’re love will always stay in my heart. Rest in peace💜💜💜
November 29, 2025
Photos of Pam with her brother James, sister Kiara, and father. Rest in peace💜💜💜
November 30, 2025
Pam you and I were like glue. Every where I went so did you. We had so much fun being left alone and hanging out. I used to come pick you up and you stayed over wearing your onesie. Your smile and laughter made your presence wonderful. Even when I moved away I made sure to see you and was delighted in the woman hood you became. I’m so heartbroken and you will forever be in my heart. I just found some pictures of us and I can remember those days so clearly. I love you so much 💕❤️💕
December 6, 2025
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December 6, 2025
December 7, 2025
Pam and my daughter Rashauna were best friends in elementary school and into high school. Pam would frequent my house quite a bit. Her presence was always wanted in my home and I have a lot of wonderful memories of her. I remember that baby face and how much she reminded me of her mother. Sybil and I were also childhood friends and I frequented her house a lot. Seeing our girls growing up together made it extra special. She will truly be missed and I pray for peace for her kids and her family. These photos represents the good times we had and shared together.
November 24, 2025
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